Hillary Rodham Clinton
and Bill Clinton
Hillary Rodham Clinton – October 26, 1947 – 8:00 PM – Chicago, Illinois
August 19, 1946 – 8:51 AM – Hope, Arkansas
Chapter 1: Important Issues and Themes in your Relationship
“Intimate relationships cannot substitute for a life plan. But to have any meaning or viability at all, a life plan must include intimate relationships.” Harriet Lerner
Every relationship is as individual, as are its participants! This chapter looks at the very bedrock of your relationship and identifies what your potential is when you are together. Each relationship has issues that need to be dealt with on an ongoing basis and different ways of dealing with them. There are also certain areas of life within which individuals find themselves when they are together. If the essence of a relationship is healthy and positive, there is nothing that you cannot accomplish in life and then the relationship is self-renewing and fulfilling. It is important to identify what in essence you have together that you can then build on. Then everything else is bonus!
Sun in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
You will be incredibly secure in this relationship and may focus a lot of attention on creating security, whether that is material or spiritual. Your loyalty towards the relationship is unquestioned and you will have a practically sustainable relationship. The only weakness if you can call it one, is that if you are under pressure to change due to other factors in the chart or current stresses, you may find it hard to let go or move on. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with the stabilizing and secure strength, when you are together.
Moon in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
This relationship needs to be given a lot of personal room to grow and move. Personal communication is integral in keeping the two of you thriving together and there is a strong need to explore and connect emotionally with your environment. You feel sustained by understanding what your emotional needs mean and how to supply them. You may have many people connected to you both and this helps you to feel good about being involved in this relationship. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with the personal connecting and communicating strength, when you are together.
Sun Conjunct Mercury:
You both like to communicate and explore your world. It is easy to understand each other and you identify with the stimulus of ideas and networks. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this intellectual and communicative aspect, when you are together.
Sun Semisextile Venus:
You are easily able to love each other and both share the same taste and style. You are also aware of what motivates you both in the love and sharing department. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this ease of love, when you are together.
Sun Semisextile Chiron:
Your instincts are in harmony with this relationship’s purpose. You value each other’s vulnerability and understand what is behind it. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this healing effect, when you are together.
Sun Semisquare Pluto:
Your use of power will come into conflict with the relationship’s purpose. You will be forced to act to resolve any disempowerment issues. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify with this challenge, when you are together.
Moon Opposition Venus:
You like to express your love for each other and may care for others too, within your personal relationship. You have so much love to give that everyone will definitely benefit. You feel comfortable with those who share your taste in beauty and art. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with this love of beauty, when you are together.
Moon Sextile Uranus:
You have opportunities to feel free whilst connected emotionally with each other. Friends may assist you to explore your sense of independence whilst still relating to each other. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with this freedom of emotional expression, when you are together.
Moon Sesquiquadrate Mars:
There may be underlying tensions between your desires and how comfortable you feel with each other. Others may appear to trigger this; however you will need to resolve them by mutually agreeing on appropriate outlets for your passions and how to get your needs met within the relationship. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with these aggressive tensions, when you are together.
Chapter 2: How You Complement One Another
“Passion makes the world go round. Love just makes it a safer place.” Ice T, The Ice Opinion
It feels like a kind of magic when people are attracted to each other, about which we can only wonder. If it is not there, we are not drawn to continue connecting with each other. Depending on the strength and quality of this attraction it is easy, delightful or compulsive to connect. When we are in a long term relationship with someone it provides a pull that brings us back together through more difficult times. It is the desire adhesive that sticks us together; otherwise we would easily drift away from each other due to all the pressures of modern life. This magnetism, lack of it or repulsion is the subtle energy that binds us, or not, in relationship with others. That attraction can comprise of sexual desire, physical appreciation and feelings of love and warmth that are easily accessible. It helps us make the compromises that are necessary in any partnership and encourages our collaborating and co-operating with one another. As a result it is an extremely important factor in the fate and enjoyment of any kind of relationship.
Venus in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
You easily communicate your loving thoughts to each other and enjoy a freedom of movement both in ideas and travel within this relationship. You will definitely learn about love together and the higher meaning of love is extremely important. This position does not guarantee longevity, unless other factors in the chart allude to that, but it definitely will be interesting and stimulating to interact with each other and others that you know together. At the very least you will be good friends.
Mars in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
This could be a highly sexual relationship where a lot of value is placed on your physical expression. You will both put a lot of energy towards making sure that your security needs are taken care of, as in earning money and accumulating possessions. However you also need to be careful that this focus on sex or money doesn’t also bust the relationship apart. The expression of your desire energy is important as long as it serves the relationship.
Venus Conjunct Chiron:
You are instinctively drawn to each other and being together touches you in a very vulnerable way. As a result you will automatically help each other to heal any wounds around love from past relationships. You will learn a lot about loving from being together. The physical side of your relationship will be important in expressing your love for each other.
Venus Semisextile Mercury:
You are able to speak lovingly to each other as you both value harmony and each other’s ideas and styles of communication. You are also aware of what motivates each other’s ideas about love and how that can affect the way you speak and your ideas. You may both have similar tastes aesthetically as well.
Mars Sextile Jupiter:
You have great opportunities to maintain your strong and positive energies, both sexually and for work. You tend to inspire and encourage each other in these areas. Others may support you in being so optimistic and confident as well.
Mars Semisextile Saturn:
You are easily consistent and stable with your energies, both sexual and work wise, as you have a high value on the structure and routine that you have set up together. You are also in touch with what motivates your security needs.
Mars Semisextile Neptune:
You can easily intuit each other’s sexual and energetic needs, as you value the subtle link that you have together. You also know what motivates the fantasy side of your sexual relationship which helps.
Asc. Conjunct Saturn:
This relationship is long term and values safety, trust and stability. Whether this is committed romantic relationship or business, structure will no doubt be the foundation of your interactions. Clarity of roles and responsibilities will be of premium value here too!
Asc. Conjunct Pluto:
This is a very intense, life transforming relationship! You need to focus on Love and not allow it to degenerate into a battle of wills. As long as you keep your hearts open and don’t try to manipulate each other, you will find that you will feel incredibly powerful together. It can also empower you both to be a force to be reckoned with and others will acknowledge the power of the relationship.
MC Opposition Jupiter:
This is an incredibly significant and strongly blessed relationship! You will instantly feel that the world is a better place by being together. Opportunities and expansion are central to this relationship and there is just a very positive sense of confidence in what you can achieve together. You will both benefit from this relationship.
MC Square Saturn:
This relationship, although significant will experience challenges to its core from your individual security needs. You will need to work on trust in each other and maintaining stability within the relationship. You will need to keep a balance between your issues around loyalty and commitment and what will contribute to stability within the relationship and this should make for a healthy relationship.
MC Square Pluto:
This relationship, although significant will experience challenges to its core from overuse of willpower and control! There may be a conflict with the intensity of the connection and your individual power drives. You will need to keep a balance between your love and respect for each other and the transforming quality of the relationship and this should make for a healthy relationship.
MC Trine Mars:
This is a significant relationship as your energy and sexuality flow easily with the integrity and core of the relationship. You can work together in projects, exercise and work. You both are able to get your needs met through this relationship. This also makes for a very strong sexual attraction, if it is that sort of relationship.
MC Quincunx Neptune:
This is a significant soul relationship but you will need to be creative in working with the intuitive link between you. There may be challenges between the integrity and core of the relationship and your boundary keeping. You will both value the soul connection that is possible and understand what is motivating that. Others may acknowledge and benefit from this empathic experience that exists within this relationship.
MC Semisquare Uranus:
Although a significant relationship, there will be some conflict with the integrity and core of this relationship and your needs for individual freedom and expression. You will be forced to act to resolve this in a positive manner within the relationship.
Chapter 3: How You Communicate
“Listen. Do not have an opinion while you listen because frankly, your opinion doesn’t hold much water outside of Your Universe. Just listen. Listen until their brain has been twisted like a dripping towel and what they have to say is all over the floor.” Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, 02-14-2003
“When in doubt, tell the truth.” Mark Twain (1835 – 1910)
The bridge that links us as individuals and saves us from our isolation is communication and so it is a key piece to any relationship. The good news is that anyone can learn communication skills if they are interested in bridging that gap. One of the main skills is listening, and of course we can listen not only with our ears but on all levels. And the other key skill is truth telling. These two basic keys are the best foundation for any kind of good relationship and guarantee that you can continue to grow and develop together.
In some relationships we easily develop good communication patterns but in others there are inherent stresses or resistances to healthy sharing on this level. We then have to work harder to maintain optimum communication levels. So when starting any new relationship, it would bode us well if we are initially challenged, to be realistic about how much effort will need to be expended in developing consciousness and healthy habits for the future relationship. Then we can choose whether this is worthy of our effort or not.
Be forewarned that the largest common cause of relationship breakdown is when there is a breakdown in communication. Then the bridge that everything else must cross to link us has fallen into the crevasse between us. Bringing consciousness to this area in all your relationships will pay off dividends with healthy, happy and flourishing connections with others.
Mercury in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
Your thoughts and communications hinge around stability and security within this relationship. You value talking things through and sharing very deep thoughts & feelings, so this promotes a deep intimacy. Your ideas also promote trust in each other and build a strong foundation for the relationship. You value learning and may share books as well as discussions. Movement is of value to you both, so you may find it helpful to establish regular times to get together to update each other on your daily lives.
Mercury Semisextile Chiron:
You value the instinctual ideas and conversations that you share and are also aware of the origins of your human vulnerabilities. As a result you are able to understand each other in a balanced way: body and mind.
Mercury Semisquare Pluto:
There will be a conflict between how you think and communicate and your need for control. You will be forced to act to resolve any problems caused by lack of real intimate and honest exchanges. Any compromises you make will ensure that the profundity of your ideas and conversations will support each other!
Chapter 4: Challenges to Relating
“I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” Rita Rudner
In some cases the challenges to relating are easily transformed and then integrated and in others they feel more like stumbling towards the eventual collapse of the relationship! Challenges in life can be important to help us remain conscious in our participation with each other, rather than falling into a state of unconscious participation that allows our complexes full expression! However there is a middle line, a relationship cannot be all about work, but needs an element of relaxation so that we can rest and restore ourselves whilst together. If this place of refuge is not available then we cannot and will not persist with the development of a mature relationship. So it is important that any relationship is not overburdened with challenges and lacking any ease, joy and fun.
There are many kinds of challenges within relationships; these occur mainly in the areas of communication, sexuality, finances, security and trust to name just a few. All these challenges can be alleviated and bridged through clear communication. Trust can be established if you know that both parties are committed to growing the relationship. That is the foundation underneath any relationship, the willingness to go the distance through good times or bad, so that when life intervenes to ‘spoil our fun’ we have tools and a sense of perseverance to persist.
It is up to the individuals whether the challenges within their relationships are workable and ultimately elevating or whether they are more trouble than they are worth.
Saturn in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
This is a strong healing or service oriented relationship and you will work hard together for those purposes. There is probably some sort of inequality and that can be good for employee/employer or guru/student relationships. This could also be a very healing connection but does not show a relationship of equals. There is something greater than your individual egos working to keep you together. You have some lessons that need to be learned whilst working in this relationship and therefore a sense of loyalty or commitment is strong. It is important not to take advantage of the inequality of the relationship and try to control each other through service or health issues.
Saturn Conjunct Pluto:
This relationship has a core strength that can survive very difficult times. There is also a tendency to put a lid on any instinctual movement within the relationship. One or both may identify with control and though you can rely on the bare bones of this relationship, there may be problems fleshing these out with joie de vivre and love!
Saturn Square Jupiter:
You may find obstacles to your sense of exploration and adventure within this relationship. Fear and insecurity may limit your ability to grow and learn from each other. You are challenged to balance both your need to expand with a sense of stability and structure.
Saturn Sextile Neptune:
You have opportunities to define your individual boundaries within the structure of this relationship. Your spiritual, subtle connection can support the trust that you feel together. Others may facilitate these experiences for both of you.
North Node in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
You will feel drawn to build a structure together, whether that is family and home or a business. You will identify with certain roles as individuals within this relationship. Within the context of these roles and the structure that you build together, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on home, family, career and your roles in the world.
True Node Square Mars:
Your destined activities and sexual expression may be in conflict with your needs. There may be disharmony in getting both your needs met and there may be a conflict of wills. Within the context of this conflict, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on assertiveness, sexual expression, energy and actions.
True Node Trine Neptune:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny of this soul connection. You will smoothly develop a fated sense of empathy and intuition together. Within the context of this flow, you will discover the areas that will easily be developed as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will be around boundaries, compassion and spirituality.
Black Moon Lilith in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a soulful connection from the heart. You will be challenged to allow a deep flow of love to exchange between you, which will promote desire on a profound level. You need to surrender to being taken over by Love that may not be appropriate by social standards or customs. This instinctual expression of desire may express also in the area of creativity and children too. Unacknowledged desire and needs for love will erupt within this relationship and need to be honored and accepted when together. You could see this as a wonderful opportunity to get to know and understand your deep soulful desires and creative expressions.
True Lilith Square Neptune:
There is a conflict between your subtle, spiritual connection and the deep emotions and sexuality that are released from being together. You may find that these more unconscious feelings disturb your boundaries between each other and need to be accepted and integrated. Repressing these feelings will only prove disruptive to the relationship and contribute to lack of depth.
True Lilith Trine Mars:
You may take it for granted how easily your energies and actions flow with the deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the relationship. Your activities and sexual expression integrate smoothly with this level that is normally unconscious. You are therefore capable of working together on a profound, soulful level.
True Lilith Trine MC:
This is a significant relationship as the integrity and core of the relationship flows easily with the deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the relationship. The roles you share together whether in work, home or family integrate easily together with this level that is normally unconscious. It is easy to accept and integrate, so that you are capable of functioning together on a profound, soulful level.
True Lilith Quincunx True Node:
You will need to be creative with the destined quality to the deep emotional and sexual dimension that you share. There may be challenges between this fateful quality and this normally hidden, unconscious level. You will both value the profound soul connection and are also able to understand how the past motivates each other responses on that level. Within the context of this dimension, you will creatively discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on intimacy, sex and feelings.
Chapter 5: Background of the Relationship
“My mother used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven’t met yet. She’s now in a maximum security twilight home in Australia.” Dame Edna Everage (1934)
“Nobody sees a flower – really – it is so small it takes time – we haven’t time – and to see takes time, like to have a friend takes time.” Georgia O’Keeffe (1887 – 1986)
“Don’t accept rides from strange men, and remember that all men are strange.” Robin Morgan
We have many different types of relationships. These days we have the luxury of being able to be very creative with all our relationships and can work together to make them suit us as individuals. We have grown beyond automatically relating from predetermined roles. This is truly wonderful as it has the great advantage that we then are challenged to stay conscious whilst we interact with each other.
It is important in any kind of relationship to have friendship as the underlying foundation. The origins of the word friend come from the Old English word “freond” which meant “to love, to favor” and is related to the Old English word “freo” which meant “free”. This is a clue as to how to make all our relationships successful, to honor each other”s freedom as individuals and to love each other. This can be applied to all business and personal relationships if we want to achieve the highest expression of potential between others.
Jupiter in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
You are blessed together to the very core of your relationship. This is a wonderful relationship to expand and grow the structures that you build together, whether that is home, family or business. You will have a very positive and enthusiastic take on these things and those around you will benefit too! This area of your lives will be where you learn and grow the most from each other and where others will also learn from you too!
Chiron in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
This relationship exposes vulnerabilities from past relationship wounds, as regards thinking and communication. As a result you will focus a lot of attention to any difficulties that you share in communicating. You will experience a sense of acceptance and wholeness in this area and much healing. Those around you will benefit from this acceptance and so together you will afford a sense of wholeness to them as well.
Uranus in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship is about individual creative expression whether through love, creative projects, following your heart’s desires or children. You both will value the freedom to explore your inner child within this relationship. Just be careful that the disruptive and willful behavior of your “inner children” does not destroy the mature love that you have for each other. By affording opportunities for creating this relationship to suit both your individual needs for freedom and independence as well as the truth of your care for each other will be a positive expression of this relationship.
Neptune in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a very strong intuitive level of communication. You may find it hard to keep your thoughts to yourself as the permeable membrane between each other’s minds is so strong. In spite of this, it is important that you practice clear and regular communication to avoid confusion or disappointment. You both may share a spiritual path together and therefore share your ideas and conversations on these topics.
Pluto in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a fated sense of service that could profoundly change your lives. There is a need however to be very careful of the inequality and possibly imbalance of power, that exists within this relationship and not to misuse power in any way. It will be important to focus your attention on the love you share, rather than resort to control or manipulation of each other, or those around you. You can receive profound healing through this relationship and so it is important to empower each other. Of course there are some relationships where we are brought together to help and empower each other, and this would be a positive manifestation.
Jupiter Square Pluto:
Within this relationship there may be great obstacles to change due to a lack of empowerment. You are both challenged to do great things together without driving each other too hard, or disempowering yourselves. It is always important to connect with how you care about each other and those around you rather than resorting to manipulative or controlling behavior.
Ceres in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
This is a relationship where you will experience a wonderful sense of care as regards your sense of trust and security. There is a real sense of abundance as regards your physical security and financial investments and also on a deep psychological level. You are able to care for each other sexually and also in the midst of any changes in the relationship. However you will also experience an extreme sense of loss and devastation in these areas, if there is any threat to the relationship. Then you will experience the opposite of extreme insecurity and desolation.
Juno in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
This relationship has strong roles in as you have come together to build a structure whether home, family or business. You will quickly identify you have work to do together and what your roles are within that purpose. The relationship may be public property in some way. You need to consciously bring some relaxation and spontaneity to this, as no one can sustain a role for long without some relaxation. Occasionally it would be good to “let your hair down” and pursue other interests outside of the partnership – structures are nothing without heart and life inside! It is important not to resort to game playing and deception. It is human nature to “want to have it all”, much better to be honest and build this into your roles together.
Vesta in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a strong focus on working to build a structure together whether home, family or business. Together you have the capacity for a sense of devotion and hard work in achieving your goals. You will be able to create a sense of home and warmth whatever you build together and so too with a business. There may be a sense of support from the past or family or your roots. Be careful not to distract yourselves with work and service when matters of the heart may need to be addressed with love and/or passion.
Psyche in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
This relationship is focused on spiritually integrating security and trust within your love and sexual relationship. Any vulnerable issues around trust and safety that surface will be brought to consciousness. Within this relationship you have real sensitivity towards each other in this regard and a potential of psychic integration of security challenges you face individually. There is a great sense of meaning in being together that feeds your soul on a higher level.
Sappho in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
You like to talk and think about your passionate romantic and sexual attraction and the deep value you have for each other. You may also become involved in speaking, writing, lecturing, publishing or media work with the focus of preparing others for formalizing relationships through marriage or some other official bond. The bond between you is the focus of most of your thinking and writing, which can be poetic, but definitely creative.
Eros in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
You feel intensely drawn together sexually and will focus on establishing security and trust together. You are drawn together to indulge in erotic tastes and focus on what turns each other on sexually. The very passion in the relationship is what your security is based so this means that you will be able to sustain and rely on this in the relationship. You will build stability also on your sexual compatibility.
Cupido in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
This relationship is focused on building trust and security on the physical attraction and chemistry that you have together. You both value each other’s physical beauty and this is an important factor in your sexual relationship. Your security is built on your attractiveness as a couple. You need to be careful to not be caught too much in the superficial look of the relationship. It is also important to attend to the heart of your love and care for each other.
Amor in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
Your ideal love supports you both in building a core life structure together, whether home, family or business. Love is the very integrity that glues you together. The differences that show up in the roles you share, will help you identify your boundaries. It is important to both of you that your structure really shows the unconditional love that you share. Your family, past or genetics may be part of the foundation of your love.
Aphrodite in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
You have been brought together for your heart’s fulfillment through the fated love you share. There is also a focus on art and beauty in your creativity, children, entertainment, fun and sports that you share together. You initially felt drawn strongly together in a destined way. There is a special magic that your love brings to all these areas and any creative work that you are involved together will have a destined quality to it. This could certainly be a “great love” experience.
Ceres Trine Jupiter:
You easily find the world a better place when you are together as you are able to care and support each other within this serious relationship. You are easily inspired and enthused about the philosophical basis of nurture within the relationship. The sense of abundance and prosperity (whether materially or spiritually) that this relationship evokes does not go overboard and sits comfortably with both of you.
Juno Sextile Sun:
You have real opportunities to integrate the contract or bond you share, whether marriage or business and the purpose of being together. You can combine your mission easily with your contract. Others may somehow be involved in this bond you share. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with the possibilities within your purpose, when you are together.
Juno Sextile Mercury:
Together you have great opportunities for harmony in your thinking and communicating within the contract or bond you share, whether marriage or business. You can easily integrate your ideas and talk with this contract with just a little attention. Friends may be integral in assisting you both to experience this fulfillment of communication together.
Vesta Conjunct True Node:
You will feel fatefully drawn into this destined relationship which has a strong work ethic which you will embrace. You both may tend to overcompensate for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work, healing and creative sacrifice. However this is where fate lies within the relationship and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. You can creatively configure this strong sense of service and healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost a tantric experience of wholeness. Within the context of this destined relationship, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals together. These lessons will tend to be focused on work, creative service, healing and sexual expression.
Vesta Trine Sun:
You experience a lot of harmony together as your strong work ethic flows easily with the purpose of being together. You may both tend to overcompensate for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work, healing and creative sacrifice. However the mission in the relationship flows easily and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. You can also easily creatively integrate this strong sense of service and healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost a tantric experience of wholeness. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this easy mission of creative service, when you are together.
Vesta Trine Mercury:
You experience a lot of harmony together as your strong work ethic flows easily with how you think and communicate. You may both tend to overcompensate for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work, healing and creative sacrifice. However your ideas and communication styles flow easily and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. There is also a creative flow of your strong sense of service and healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost a tantric experience of wholeness.
Psyche Conjunct Mars:
This is a real soul union in which your energy and sexual expression support you both in personal development within the relationship. Through your sexual relationship, activities and work you are able to find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other’s eyes. You are actively involved with each other on your journey to wholeness. You are very connected to each other psychologically and the relationship affords you transformation and healing.
Psyche Sextile Jupiter:
You can see opportunities for this soul union which encompasses personal development and your sense of meaning together. Others may offer you opportunities to find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other’s eyes. You also have the potential to connect with each other psychologically and the relationship can afford you transformation and healing.
Sappho Conjunct Neptune:
In this relationship you experience a sense of comradeship, where you share similar values in beauty and the arts in your intuitive, subtle connection. You aim for refinement as regard your deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. By elevating these areas through the arts and ideas you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing.
Sappho Trine True Node:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny of the comradeship you share with similar values in beauty and the arts. Refinement flows as regard deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. You can easily elevate these areas through the arts and ideas and will be accepting of each other so that the relationship is healing. Within the context of this flow, you will discover the areas that will easily be developed as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will be around bonding, sexuality and aesthetics.
Sappho Sextile Saturn:
There are real opportunities in this relationship to experience comradeship, where you share similar values in beauty and the arts as part of your commitment together. You need to bring refinement to deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. You also have opportunities to elevate these areas through the arts and ideas and this will provide much healing within the relationship. Those around you may provide support in this.
Eros Opposition Sun:
This is a profound meeting where the power of this great Love will be polarized with the purpose of being together. You are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic love for each other but at times may find it challenging to integrate the relationship goals. You are both challenged to love your vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this polarized erotic love, when you are together.
Eros Opposition Mercury:
This is a profound meeting where the power of this great Love will be polarized with your thinking and communicating. You are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic love for each other but at times may find it challenging to integrate your ideas and conversations. You are both challenged to love your vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love.
Eros Sextile True Node:
It is easy to surrender to this great Love in this very destined relationship! Your sense of fate together flows smoothly as you are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic connection. You can easily love your vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to this Love.
Cupido Conjunct Sun:
You are strongly drawn together from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. You find a beauty in each other that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is integral to the purpose of being together. As a result this promotes desire and can turn each other on sexually too. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this attractive purpose, when you are together.
Cupido Conjunct Mercury:
You are strongly drawn together from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. You find a beauty in each other that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is integral how you think and communicate together. As a result you turn each other on sexually too.
Cupido Conjunct Neptune:
You are strongly drawn together from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. You find a beauty in each other that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is integral to the intuitive, subtle connection you share together. As a result you turn each other on sexually too.
Cupido Trine True Node:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny of your attraction for each other. This attraction flows from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. It is easy to find a beauty in each other as that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is pivotal to the sense of fatefulness together. As a result this promotes desire and turns each other on sexually too. Within the context of this flow, you will discover the areas that will easily be developed as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will be related to the mirror of each other’s attractiveness.
Amor Conjunct True Node:
This fateful relationship embodies a destined, perfected love, which may be difficult to experience in reality, in your destiny together. You can creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship. Both of you can identify the boundaries between you and honor and love each other as a result. Within the context of this love, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on bringing this love to reality.
Amor Square Mars:
You have difficulty combining your destined, perfected love, which may be difficult to experience in reality with your energies and sexual expression together. You love each other purely but there seems to be inherent differences in your activities and sexuality. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both identifying the boundaries between you and honoring and loving each other and work and sex so that difficulties will be minimized. At times you may find it challenging to integrate the more hidden unconscious dimensions of your desire and attraction.
Amor Trine Neptune:
This relationship flows easily with your destined, perfected love, which may be difficult to experience in reality with the intuitive, subtle connection together. You can easily and creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship. Within the ease between you, both of you can identify your boundaries and honor and love each other as a result.
Amor Sextile Saturn:
Those around you will offer you opportunities to combine your destined sense of perfect love, which may be difficult to experience in reality, with the commitment you share together. You have possibilities of creatively incorporating more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship. With the ease between you, both of you have opportunities of identifying your boundaries so that you honor and love each other.
Aphrodite Square Neptune:
You have difficulty combining your “bolt out of the blue” fated relationship together with the subtle, intuitive connection together. You are destined to be connected but there seems to be inherent differences in your boundary issues. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both your fated relationship and honoring each other’s boundaries so that difficulties will be minimized. You are challenged to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and to benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Trine Jupiter:
There is a flow to this “bolt out of the blue” fated relationship and figures largely in your sense of meaning together. You are creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Sextile MC:
This is a significant relationship and has a real flow to its “bolt out of the blue” fated quality which is expressed easily in home, family or business you are building together. You are creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Sextile Mars:
Those around you will offer you real opportunities for this “bolt out of the blue” fated relationship to figure largely in your energies and sexual expression together. You have possibilities to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers.
Chapter 6: Summary
” Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you have to be involved with them. Love is not a bandage to cover wounds.” Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, February 16, 2004
“The conception of two people living together for twenty-five years without having a cross word suggests a lack of spirit only to be admired in sheep.” Alan Patrick Herbert
“Why is it so hard to find a soulmate? Because most of us are actually searching for egomates instead. We place the most limited and unloving aspect of our minds in charge of our search for love, and then wonder why we aren’t succeeding. To the degree that we identify with this false sense of self, and operate on the basis of its limited point of view, we aren’t looking for someone to love so much as recruiting fellow actors to take on supporting roles in a favorite melodrama.” Carolyn Godschild Miller “Soulmates: Following Inner Guidance to the Relationship of Your Dreams.”
Relationships can be challenging & sometimes seem more trouble than they are worth. We are challenged to live our best life & to be the best that we can be! These days going down the relationship path, consciously, can be more profound & enlightening than getting thyself into a nunnery! We see each other through the mirror & reflection in each other’s eyes, of who we are & what we are doing or not doing! We cannot hide or delude ourselves when we live in the light of our partner’s eyes.
So if we choose to take this path in life we are subject to all the gifts & joys of sharing, companionship, care & love that relating can bring. We are also brought more fully into conscious attention to our own souls & personal development. We honor & respect each other’s boundaries & separation so that we can unite with each other in love & compassion.
On a bigger scale the microcosm of our personal & business relationships are the seed of our community, our country & our planet. We have all been brought together under the banner of humanity & our spiritual challenge is learning to live with ourselves firstly & then others in a harmonious, peaceful & respectful way! When seen from this perspective, whatever needs to be addressed in our immediate relationships, will provide a good basis for a better planet!
May these reflections help serve that purpose!
Romantic and Sexual Attraction Medium Score (72):
This relationship has a reasonable level of romantic & sexual attraction & that means that you would enjoy being together. This is a good foundation for any kind of relationship that you wish to develop together
Good Communication, Problem Solving Medium Score (73):
This relationship has a good conduit of communication. At times of stress this may require work & consciousness. It is important to make sure that you both have a regular time & place to connect & communicate so that the relationship never has to suffer due to lack of information.
Success & High Achievement Medium Score (71):
This relationship gives a positive experience of success both spiritually & materially. This experience may not be consistent but by applying a positive focus & working hard, you can do well together.
Longevity & Commitment High Score (133):
This relationship has an excellent ability to go the distance & be a stable foundation for both of you. You can rely on each other & will easily be able to face challenges or difficulties. In fact these will only increase your commitment.
Sense of Fate & Destiny Together High Score (133):
There is an incredibly powerful pull, possibly a compulsion, to be together that often feels stronger than your own individual personal needs. You may also experience a strong sense of familiarity even when you initially meet. You will learn profound & life changing lessons together. It probably feels fated to be together, so ready or not you will be propelled into big changes together. This may be a soul mate relationship!
Challenges & Weaknesses High Score (106):
There are many challenges in this relationship & it would bode you well to pay a lot of attention to them. If one or both of you feel trapped, ignored, dissatisfied, manipulated, disillusioned or disappointed then you will need to consciously address these issues. If you want this relationship to work it would be easier & quicker to seek professional assistance from a therapist, counselor or coach.
” Love is the most difficult and dangerous form of courage. Courage is the most desperate, admirable, and noble kind of love.” Delmore Schwartz